Once, while driving home, I went past the local middle school. 16 Years of Pirates Of The Caribbean 2003-2019 5 Movies signatures shirt A group of young girls were walking along the sidewalk to my right. One of them yelled something at me that I could not quite hear. I did not slow down, but I rolled down my window so I could hear her better; perhaps, I thought, this is an emergency. She shouted again: “I suck dicks for free!” I sped up when I realized what she said.On the one hand, I am somewhat tempted to view this as moral decay. 12 or 13 year old girls should not be offering blowjobs to random adult men who drive by, even in jest. On the other hand, the conservative part of me that thinks that people never change has to wonder if it was ever any different. Maybe kids that age were just always like that.
In the case of your daughter, I am guessing 16 Years of Pirates Of The Caribbean 2003-2019 5 Movies signatures shirt that “dirty minded” means “constantly doing and saying suggestive things.” You cannot stop her from thinking the way she does (nor should you) but you can teach her to behave better. Shift your focus from changing her mind to changing her behavior.Kids that age think about sex — it’s a mix of hormones, sexual curiosity and, yes, a culture that commodifies (and is therefore saturated with) sexuality. Shielding her from the latter is admirable. Shielding her from the former two is neither possible nor desirable, although you ought to teach her the right way to do it. Impress upon her that, although sex is not inherently bad, neither is not having sex. Both lessons are needed.Edit: this is now my most-viewed answer on Quora, displacing the previous answer from 2017.