This is a spiritual marriage. Some That’s what I do I sit I knit and I know things shirt aspects of love, especially physical attraction, is entirely beyond your personal control. Some people just gel better than others. Maybe you like a certain color hair, or body shape, or clothing style. We always have a choice, even in love. We choose who we invest our time in, we choose who gets to break our hearts and we choose who we want to spend our whole lives with. The only sad thing about this is, it’s not always about our choices. We need to consider the choices of the people we love too. Sometimes, our choices don’t work out, and sometimes they do, because choices can fluctuate or change based on the circumstances we’re in.
If you think love is a choice and a feeling That’s what I do I sit I knit and I know things shirt, then what selection criteria do you use to choose who you will love? What happens if you choose, and then you meet someone new who makes you feel the feeling of love? Are you immune to that? You simply arrive in a place and that’s how you feel; what you see; what makes sense to you, etc. Love is an emotion inspired by those who make us feel good in some way. When they stop making us feel good, we fall out of love. We can make choices that affect our chances of feeling loved or more or less of it; but we cannot choose the feeling of love itself.